十月，秋天來臨的時候，有位朋友讀了dj的網誌，
這樣問我：「為什麼最愛與最適合的，不能一同存在呢？」「步入禮堂的另一半，不是自己最愛的人？」------
他讀了這篇文章。自己最愛的人是否也能是最適合自己的人？
當然可以，只是機率不大，能真正遇上人，你們真幸運，所以，你們一定要幸福給大家看喔！
不過，大部分的人，並不是這麼幸運的。
人們總是貪心，尤其是當人們年輕時，對於愛情，更是貪心，有時明明遇到心裡很愛、跟自己也很合適的，但當你開始考慮，是否要跟眼前這男生或女生共度一生時，卻還想著未來是否會遇到更好的、更愛的或更合適的，所以，我們觀望、我們拖延、我們等待，直到最後，對方累了、倦了，不願意再繼續陪你等下去，然後，我們錯過了。
而人們總是要等到錯過了，才會恍然大悟，原來，我是這麼喜歡對方，對方跟自己又是這麼的合適。但矛盾的是，若我們沒錯過心中那完美情人，而選擇跟她在一起，那麼，我們也無從比較以前的戀人，跟未來遇見的，何者比較愛？何者比較合適？
因為錯過，在心中留下遺憾，讓她在你心裡，變得更加美好。但當你選擇跟她在一起了，那麼，在你心裡，可能會有種遺憾，你可能會一直想著，若當初我沒跟她步入禮堂，那麼，未來我是否會遇到更好的、更愛的或更合適的？
這樣看來，不管是否錯過心中最完美的那個人，我們都不會感到心滿意足。
錯過了，覺得遺憾；擁有的，卻不懂得珍惜。
「那麼，我們到底要找尋最合適的，還是最愛的呢？」這位朋友在文末這樣問dj，
於是，我為了回答她，寫了這篇文章。
其實，不管找尋最愛的或是最合適的，都是可以的，若你還年輕，未來的歲月還很長，那麼你可以試著找找看既愛又合適的，如果你夠幸運，能夠遇上兼具兩者的另一半，那時候，請你一定要緊緊的抓牢他，別讓他跑掉。
不過，大部分的情況是，適合自己的，不是自己最愛的，最愛的，卻又不合適。
但假如真的很愛，你可以想辦法讓彼此合適，不是嗎？即使到最後並沒有成功，你也已經認真的努力過了。
相對的，若覺得彼此合適，也能試著去喜歡對方，因為不試試看，你怎麼知道，他不會是你的最愛呢？步入禮堂的另一半，不是自己最愛的人？為什麼，我會加上問號？因為，當步入禮堂那時，或許心裡會想起以前的某個身影，而感到些許遺憾，當下，你身邊的另一半，或許不是你最愛的人。但步入禮堂之後，過了三年、五年或十年，或許，你的遺憾，就會一點一滴的消失了，因為那時，你與你的另一半，經過這些年的相處、相互扶持、患難與共，不知不覺中，他早已成為你的最愛。
Thursday, November 19, 2009
KID
Suddenly blowfish feel that she at the top of the world....
Why? what happen blowfish?
Blowfish participate on KID(kulim innovation day) event today present on her project. Feel nervous from morning 8.30AM till 3PM as she the last presenter for the innovation event. Looking at all other presenter, their thing look so superb. Deep in blowfish heart, she know she wont win this year (sign of no self confident). Luckily blowfish friend + best friend keep on motivate blowfish tell blowfish that "U CAN".
After listen to 7presenter idea, blowfish know that blowfish have very little chance to win thus blowfish just want go up and just present for her project without put any hope :-p with this mindset blowfish heartbeat back to normal. Calmly go up the stair and present her project.
When finish presenting, judges start to ask blowfish question. First question blowfish already cant answer =.= blowfish really no idea what the judges trying to ask blowfish :-p luckily the judges very good, he say if i din go to so depth is ok :D
After judges question, it time for audience to raise question for blowfish. Suddenly all the audience very active post >2 question for blowfish luckily blowfish able handle it.
When go to time for announcing the result, blowfish pray that she can get second prize although blowfish know she not qualify :-p $$$ le everybody also want right :-p
First running up prize not fall to blowfish :S aiks abit sad ......
Come to first prize winner blowfish already tot want to leave the hall but based on emcee description seem like the winner is.........
BLOWFISH
YEAH! YEAH!YEAH!
Yes blowfish win the unexpected prize :D feel really happy. When boss congrate blowfish time, he suddenly tell blowfish that blowfish need to continue this trend next year as blowfish already be the winner for 2years must at least win 3times =.= hope he just joking else die la blowfish need to scratch head and think of new project.
Why? what happen blowfish?
Blowfish participate on KID(kulim innovation day) event today present on her project. Feel nervous from morning 8.30AM till 3PM as she the last presenter for the innovation event. Looking at all other presenter, their thing look so superb. Deep in blowfish heart, she know she wont win this year (sign of no self confident). Luckily blowfish friend + best friend keep on motivate blowfish tell blowfish that "U CAN".
After listen to 7presenter idea, blowfish know that blowfish have very little chance to win thus blowfish just want go up and just present for her project without put any hope :-p with this mindset blowfish heartbeat back to normal. Calmly go up the stair and present her project.
When finish presenting, judges start to ask blowfish question. First question blowfish already cant answer =.= blowfish really no idea what the judges trying to ask blowfish :-p luckily the judges very good, he say if i din go to so depth is ok :D
After judges question, it time for audience to raise question for blowfish. Suddenly all the audience very active post >2 question for blowfish luckily blowfish able handle it.
When go to time for announcing the result, blowfish pray that she can get second prize although blowfish know she not qualify :-p $$$ le everybody also want right :-p
First running up prize not fall to blowfish :S aiks abit sad ......
Come to first prize winner blowfish already tot want to leave the hall but based on emcee description seem like the winner is.........
BLOWFISH
YEAH! YEAH!YEAH!
Yes blowfish win the unexpected prize :D feel really happy. When boss congrate blowfish time, he suddenly tell blowfish that blowfish need to continue this trend next year as blowfish already be the winner for 2years must at least win 3times =.= hope he just joking else die la blowfish need to scratch head and think of new project.
习惯了寂寞
一天天重复的生活
一天一天忙碌着
熟悉的 陌生的 都会擦肩而过
一天天寻寻觅觅着
一天一天等待着
属于我
属于我 很简单的快乐
该不该那么执着
这一份爱怎样才能寄托
习惯了这样的寂寞
习惯了这样的生活
我期待一个人 能够保护我
我期待一个人 能和我分享快乐
属于我们的 寂寞的快乐 ...
Disclaimer: this is lyric from one song which i think quite nice thus would like to share with u all.
一天一天忙碌着
熟悉的 陌生的 都会擦肩而过
一天天寻寻觅觅着
一天一天等待着
属于我
属于我 很简单的快乐
该不该那么执着
这一份爱怎样才能寄托
习惯了这样的寂寞
习惯了这样的生活
我期待一个人 能够保护我
我期待一个人 能和我分享快乐
属于我们的 寂寞的快乐 ...
Disclaimer: this is lyric from one song which i think quite nice thus would like to share with u all.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
random thought
Several thing blowfish think of update. At first think want to write in chinese but too lazy to sit in front of laptop ping yin all the word and disturbing friend to help blowfish guess what word blowfish want to write and help blowfish ping yin it so think write in english still the fastest solution :-p
LOVE
If u think blowfish will write about ex again then u are wrong :-p, after talking about ex for so long time, it time to let story end la. Last weekend blowfish just take out all the letter and burn it, when burn the letter blowfish doesnt feel anything thought blowfish suppose to feel sad or sheed some tear but blowfish burn all the love evident just like tat :D
No heartbreak feel, No tear come out, No shaking hand when throw the letter to burn :-p
Sure all wondering why blowfish suddenly got courage to burn it???
Blowfish just think if keeping all the letter will hold u back then why keep it although in future u look back all this letter u will laugh but still blowfish think way to forget one thing is just eliminate it from your life :D
=.= blowfish thought u say u don want talk about ex anymore :-p why still talk long2 here???
The title love here actually refer to mother love. Recently really touch by mom. Can feel her deep2 love for her children.
Mom: Now i got nothing to worry except u, please take care yourself really sad see u suffer for allergy.
Blowfish: (Deep in heart blowfish feel warm can see mom really feel worry for blowfish. Aiks blowfish promise will try control the diet and make herself healthy)
Guess mom really worry blowfish feel stress, she sponsor blowfish to fix car, every weekend also got extra money :D Mom don worry la, blowfish din feel stress. It time for blowfish to learn how to control the cash flow.
Dont worry mom, your little gal is independent enough to withstand all the storm, even fall down she will able to stand up again. This the blowfish spirit: Never give UP!!!
Love u mom hope that blowfish can make u feel happy and don feel worry for blowfish, blowfish will take a good care of herself.
Thanks for all the love that u gave blowfish. Blowfish feel greatful for having u beside blowfish :D
*** Seriously think this entry should write in chinese so that can better describe the feeling deep inside blowfish heart.
Birthday celebration
Many ppl asking blowfish what she do during birthday???
Typically she doesnt do anything just go for lunch with colleagues and go dinner with best friend.
Get lotsa wishes from friend at facebook, email.
Dont know why blowfish not really like her birthday cox every year her wishes never come true even though the wishes just a simple one.
Luckily this year no birthday cake for blowfish so she don need make a wish :D
Thanks everyone for the lovely wishes.
Marathon
PG marathon event is held this weekend, Blowfish really hope can finish the journey in specific time and get cert for it. A series of training being done, jogging for one hour (end up walk like zombie :-p) , badminton, hiking + gym. Hope with all this training, blowfish stamina is enough to keep her running for 3hours. Cross finger blowfish can finish the run.
Thinking of marathon is fun however there are some minor techical issue :-p
Registration start at 2.45AM, bridge close by 12AM. If blowfish drive to PG by 11PM, where blowfish should go lepak to wait for the event???Feel reluctant to go disturb friend make them awake in midnight =.= still thinking.........
Luckily blowfish have nice division that offer blowfish to camp at his house :D
Problem solve, PG bridge Blowfish coming :D
KID
please don mistaken this as Kids aka children. KID here refer to kulim innovation day. Blowfish paper being selected for presentation. Last year blowfish paper buta2 win first price hoping this year same thing will happen but looking at the other paper title all sound like so xxxx how to fight la. Just try her best la. Blowfish got advantage also as got support from her best friend :D which really help her a lot in term of giving blowfish idea how to write good presentation, give blowfish motivation :D Thanks really appreciate it.
Wish blowfish good luck for this KID event :D
Feeling
Still happy swimming alone in the sea with her fish friend. Guess blowfish is kind of fish that suitable swim alone. She can enjoy the sweet time :D
However in order to keep blowfish from feel lonely guess blowfish need to set new target or dream for herself to busy with.
Hmm dream, this the tuff part. Blowfish really dont know what she want to achieve........
Let blowfish think2 tonight.
Life is wonderful let appreciate every moment we have. Eventhough we might suffering now but blowfish strongly believe after taste the bitter everyone will taste the sweet part of life also.
LOVE
If u think blowfish will write about ex again then u are wrong :-p, after talking about ex for so long time, it time to let story end la. Last weekend blowfish just take out all the letter and burn it, when burn the letter blowfish doesnt feel anything thought blowfish suppose to feel sad or sheed some tear but blowfish burn all the love evident just like tat :D
No heartbreak feel, No tear come out, No shaking hand when throw the letter to burn :-p
Sure all wondering why blowfish suddenly got courage to burn it???
Blowfish just think if keeping all the letter will hold u back then why keep it although in future u look back all this letter u will laugh but still blowfish think way to forget one thing is just eliminate it from your life :D
=.= blowfish thought u say u don want talk about ex anymore :-p why still talk long2 here???
The title love here actually refer to mother love. Recently really touch by mom. Can feel her deep2 love for her children.
Mom: Now i got nothing to worry except u, please take care yourself really sad see u suffer for allergy.
Blowfish: (Deep in heart blowfish feel warm can see mom really feel worry for blowfish. Aiks blowfish promise will try control the diet and make herself healthy)
Guess mom really worry blowfish feel stress, she sponsor blowfish to fix car, every weekend also got extra money :D Mom don worry la, blowfish din feel stress. It time for blowfish to learn how to control the cash flow.
Dont worry mom, your little gal is independent enough to withstand all the storm, even fall down she will able to stand up again. This the blowfish spirit: Never give UP!!!
Love u mom hope that blowfish can make u feel happy and don feel worry for blowfish, blowfish will take a good care of herself.
Thanks for all the love that u gave blowfish. Blowfish feel greatful for having u beside blowfish :D
*** Seriously think this entry should write in chinese so that can better describe the feeling deep inside blowfish heart.
Birthday celebration
Many ppl asking blowfish what she do during birthday???
Typically she doesnt do anything just go for lunch with colleagues and go dinner with best friend.
Get lotsa wishes from friend at facebook, email.
Dont know why blowfish not really like her birthday cox every year her wishes never come true even though the wishes just a simple one.
Luckily this year no birthday cake for blowfish so she don need make a wish :D
Thanks everyone for the lovely wishes.
Marathon
PG marathon event is held this weekend, Blowfish really hope can finish the journey in specific time and get cert for it. A series of training being done, jogging for one hour (end up walk like zombie :-p) , badminton, hiking + gym. Hope with all this training, blowfish stamina is enough to keep her running for 3hours. Cross finger blowfish can finish the run.
Thinking of marathon is fun however there are some minor techical issue :-p
Registration start at 2.45AM, bridge close by 12AM. If blowfish drive to PG by 11PM, where blowfish should go lepak to wait for the event???Feel reluctant to go disturb friend make them awake in midnight =.= still thinking.........
Luckily blowfish have nice division that offer blowfish to camp at his house :D
Problem solve, PG bridge Blowfish coming :D
KID
please don mistaken this as Kids aka children. KID here refer to kulim innovation day. Blowfish paper being selected for presentation. Last year blowfish paper buta2 win first price hoping this year same thing will happen but looking at the other paper title all sound like so xxxx how to fight la. Just try her best la. Blowfish got advantage also as got support from her best friend :D which really help her a lot in term of giving blowfish idea how to write good presentation, give blowfish motivation :D Thanks really appreciate it.
Wish blowfish good luck for this KID event :D
Feeling
Still happy swimming alone in the sea with her fish friend. Guess blowfish is kind of fish that suitable swim alone. She can enjoy the sweet time :D
However in order to keep blowfish from feel lonely guess blowfish need to set new target or dream for herself to busy with.
Hmm dream, this the tuff part. Blowfish really dont know what she want to achieve........
Let blowfish think2 tonight.
Life is wonderful let appreciate every moment we have. Eventhough we might suffering now but blowfish strongly believe after taste the bitter everyone will taste the sweet part of life also.
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