Wednesday, November 19, 2008

What is love???

Yesterday PS chat with her roomate about what is love??
Adeline:"when time come your heart will tell"
PS(thinking.....)

PS think this is the standard answer for what is love. Love is something that u cant describe, it is kind of feeling u want to be together with that person, when u in love with a person u will think of him before think of yourself and when u think about him your will smile sweetly........
L=Learn, O=Observe V=We, E=effort PS think all this element important in sustaining LOVE
:-p

perhaps u all have more accurate defination for it, please do share with PS :)

There is different stage for love....
1. Knowing each other
Meet each other, spend time together knowing each other........
In this stage the most important thing "admire" why??
As when u start admire somebody then u will start observe him and wish to know more about him.

2. Uncertainty
Guessing each other feeling
In this stage plan out strategy very important why??
As although both party got feeling but timing always wrong then for sure it wont work.

3. Holding hand going thru life
After each other agree to hold hand become bf/gf.
In this stage PS think the most important thing is give and take. u know why??
As 2 different ppl from 2different background spend time together sure will have some fireworks there but if both party able to tolerate, accept and respect your partner then congratulation
else.....

4. When Sparks gone
After couple for few year, all the sparks gone this is challenge time for couple to maintain relationship. As human being tend to take thing for granted. In love never too sure that your other half will always together with u. Learn how to appreciate each other is important.


5. Commitment
PS guess many ppl afraid of this word....
Commitment here means both party agree to spend whole life together.
Whole life sound scary as whole life sound so long and it full with uncertainty and feeling is change across time.
That why PS think when every couple come to this stage they will tend to scare to commitment but still manageable if both guy and gal already stable and looking forward for next level relationship.

If u already going thru all state above, Congratulation : )

If u still searching your other half, PS wish u good luck!!! need any advise can find PS she can give advise although..... she not yet graduate from love university :)

If u just break with your other half and now hide at corner healing your heart, PS wish u recover soon

"In the game of love,It doesn't really matter who won or who lost.When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.Love will always find a way.Will always win."

PS always feel touch when she saw a old couple holding hand together and when they look at each other u still can feel they are so loving.

PS wish everyone can find their soulmate and role model the old couple in the picture :)

祝福妳

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

yes. seeing old couples holding hands is the most awfully sweet thing one can ever witness. as it is love that transcends time and weather beaten and yet still so strong and beating... always and forever.. hehee... i love u too! haha!

PS =! play station said...

mar,
PS think u already find the right one. Really happy for u.
PS love u too : ) u are part of PS sweet memory.
Make sure stay in touch till we old ya :)

江边鸟 said...

Sailormoon the Love Guru :)

PS =! play station said...

bird,
Tot u are love guru not me la. PS still learning. :)

阳光。绿叶 said...

sometime, love doesnt follow the stage. It does not hav formula.

Though, u hav ur own love explaination

i hav my own. Everyone has their own

there is no accurate answer for "wat is love"

but, it is important to know the asnwer?

the most important thing is: we must stay happy and appreciate, no matter single or attached

PS =! play station said...

lan ren,
yes PS agree with ur explanation At beginning PS put that love is sth that cant explain.
Different stage of love is what PS observe happening around us that why PS write it out : )
But most important thing is we enjoy our life no matter we at what stage encho your comment :)

Mark said...

爱的颂歌:
“爱是恒久忍耐、又有恩慈.爱是不嫉妒.爱是不自夸.不张狂.不作害羞的事.不求自己的益处.不轻易发怒.不计算人的恶.不喜欢不义.只喜欢真理.凡事包容.凡事相信.凡事盼望.凡事忍耐.爱是永不止息。”

这是一段很有意义的经文跟你分享,爱的含义。值得终生学习与思考的含义。很有意思。

PS =! play station said...

mark,
why your comment sound like something from bible one :-p

Mark said...

It is from Bible:)I love this sentence very much :)