What PS trying to share today?
Do u ever wondering why 2person will shout at each other when they get angry???
u know why???
1. Lost our "cool" and turn to "hot"
2. trying to convince ppl that we are right?
3. trying to express our feeling of not happy about other/something?
4. feel angry cox of the statement is correct but our heart dont want to admit the truth?
5. maybe cox of hormon fluctuation for a gals?
6. many more unknown reason.....
happen to read one article about this.....
Why we need to shout to each other eventhough the person is just next to us?
This is because when we are angry, our hearts drift apart. To mask the distance we felt, we instinctively shout instead of speak.
That why when both party is angry better just close the topic and discuss it later when our heart is close once again by that time all the person can easily get what the other half trying to tell.
Distance between heart is not measureable, but the sad thing is when the person sit beside u but yet both heart is apart.
How to eliminate distance??
PS think the only way is understanding, communication......
Both heart get apart when they have different perpective about something communication and calibration very important.
For sure u don want to talk to somebody who not understand u right?
But sometime arguement is good at least after argue both person can know each other better.
Recently PS and her best friend also always argue. Feel like PS best friend no more understand PS but yet he still think he understand PS well. PS try very hard to tell him this not what PS think but too bad now still at communication state.
Do u ever wondering why 2person will shout at each other when they get angry???
u know why???
1. Lost our "cool" and turn to "hot"
2. trying to convince ppl that we are right?
3. trying to express our feeling of not happy about other/something?
4. feel angry cox of the statement is correct but our heart dont want to admit the truth?
5. maybe cox of hormon fluctuation for a gals?
6. many more unknown reason.....
happen to read one article about this.....
Why we need to shout to each other eventhough the person is just next to us?
This is because when we are angry, our hearts drift apart. To mask the distance we felt, we instinctively shout instead of speak.
That why when both party is angry better just close the topic and discuss it later when our heart is close once again by that time all the person can easily get what the other half trying to tell.
Distance between heart is not measureable, but the sad thing is when the person sit beside u but yet both heart is apart.
How to eliminate distance??
PS think the only way is understanding, communication......
Both heart get apart when they have different perpective about something communication and calibration very important.
For sure u don want to talk to somebody who not understand u right?
But sometime arguement is good at least after argue both person can know each other better.
Recently PS and her best friend also always argue. Feel like PS best friend no more understand PS but yet he still think he understand PS well. PS try very hard to tell him this not what PS think but too bad now still at communication state.
6 comments:
you are a cool gal, never see you angry before! So, just be yourself! :)
haha
lao weng,
PS not angry just feel sad everytime argue with best friend afraid one day PS will lost this best friend :-p
there is no one in this can really understand another one... if you feel someone really understand you, this may be only on 'certain topics', or on 'certain period'.. but eventually you can see that's not true.... some ppl are good listeners, they can put themselves into your shoes and speak your words, but do not mean they are totally agreed to you :)
dont put the arguement on heart... maybe this is the time you need to spend some time to understand your friend :)
wcheow,
totally agree with u. think PS still not really mature :-p but some how if u have friend who dare to confront u means they are your true friend
Woot! Can see this blog again, yippie!
haha hi CK
But due to KM life is boring normally PS will only share opinion :)
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